Shafa Arissa WIjaya - 14Oct2013
Dear Life,
Once we know that I was pregnant, it was one of the best day of my life. Even always wanted to have a baby boy, but I realize that it doesn't matter. What matter the most is the baby deliver safely and healthy.
I also experience my foot became swollen, my body weight gain more than 10Kg, but somehow my hair became stronger (not having too much loose hair), also the skin become normal not too dry. I take a very good vitamins from the doctor that time all the way until 9 months.
When we finally undergo a 4 dimension check up, the date of birth expected has been decide around October. The face of the baby is look exactly like my husband, even I always pray if this baby is a girl then let her to be a brave girl but also a good mother one day. If this baby is a boy then let him to be a good gentlemen who always reliable for every one in Allah Swt way.
After the baby reach 8 months, me and my husband decided to move in to our parents house; so when the baby is ready to deliver we already settled in the house. The delivery time has approach, I still work as usual in the office but when the time is nearer I got small incident that makes me have to take early maternity leave. Then when I already take the maternity leave, the time of wait is come, the baby still don't want to came out. It's been almost a month I stayed at home. The Doctor said the baby still in good condition, the delivery position is also settled it's just not the time yet.
After reach 40 weeks, we came back to the hospital again to check the baby condition and still we haven't come up with any names for the baby. I was so remember, that was 12 October 2013 Saturday we do the regular check up. The Doctor said, it's already pass the time of delivery and she suggest to wait for another week or two or the only option is conducting the cesarean section. We decide to check in the hospital that day. The considerations is even the doctor convincing can still be wait until the next 2 weeks, but we still stay in the hospital; since we're still new as parents.
After wait for almost 2 days with no labor progress, the nurse suggest us with the cesarean. Even we don't want to do it, but we decide to go with the best options given. It is afternoon 14 October 2013, the nurse prepared me for the labor process. Checking my blood, the baby heart beat, all condition until I transport to the surgery room around 4 in the afternoon. Before that, the nurse injecting the anesthesia start unable to feel my but all the way to feet. I can still can hear the Doctors talking saying about the water is green already and other doctor talks.
Finally when the tummy feels like something been take out, not long after the baby cries. There she is, the baby whose birth similar to the malam takbiran Iedul Adha. When Everyone also go for holiday, me having one of the best moments ever. The doctor that handle my surgery is not the usual doctor that handle my monthly check up, but it's oke lah..
After the baby cries, one of the nurse show me the baby and she looks exactly like her dad.. she was put at my chest for a seconds, then measured the body height and weight. But, after the joy pass I started feel super dizzy and vomit.. Some how my body also tremble like crazy. All of my body shaking and still vomiting's all the way until they move me to the waiting room that is much warmer. They monitored my blood pressure, since my arm is shaking badly and still vomiting somehow my arm gets real blue.
Don't know how long the process of the surgery and the recovery, but the Whole time I always awake. Even until I was moved to the room, I still awake and not long after take a medicine I can sleep nicely. It was one of the best sleep ever.
Finally the baby was brought to my room for breastfeed. My Breast milk still not come out, but my determination is high and I convince my self this is a must and Alhamdulillah it came out massively. Even off course wound comes from the baby mouth feels very cool, its all worth the pain.. I feel so happy the first time the baby starts milking from my breast.. all the pain after the surgery somehow gone..
Si Ayah, finally decide a name. Her name is Shafa. Wijaya, will be her last name off course but I wanted a middle name. So, the baby whose born during sore takbiran Iedul Adha 2013 called Shafa Arissa Wijaya ^_^
Welcome to the world baby girl, let's grow together..
I decided to write her birth story so it will always be remembered.
Once we know that I was pregnant, it was one of the best day of my life. Even always wanted to have a baby boy, but I realize that it doesn't matter. What matter the most is the baby deliver safely and healthy.
I still can't believe that I'm actually really pregnant, sooo happy and enjoy them very much. Always wonder how the baby in my tummy is doing, how is the baby until we check that it's a she or a he?? Well the doctor always said that the baby is a girl, but always wanted to have a baby boy. That's why we always bought unisex cloth, toys and all the preparations needed.
I also experience my foot became swollen, my body weight gain more than 10Kg, but somehow my hair became stronger (not having too much loose hair), also the skin become normal not too dry. I take a very good vitamins from the doctor that time all the way until 9 months.
When we finally undergo a 4 dimension check up, the date of birth expected has been decide around October. The face of the baby is look exactly like my husband, even I always pray if this baby is a girl then let her to be a brave girl but also a good mother one day. If this baby is a boy then let him to be a good gentlemen who always reliable for every one in Allah Swt way.
After the baby reach 8 months, me and my husband decided to move in to our parents house; so when the baby is ready to deliver we already settled in the house. The delivery time has approach, I still work as usual in the office but when the time is nearer I got small incident that makes me have to take early maternity leave. Then when I already take the maternity leave, the time of wait is come, the baby still don't want to came out. It's been almost a month I stayed at home. The Doctor said the baby still in good condition, the delivery position is also settled it's just not the time yet.
After reach 40 weeks, we came back to the hospital again to check the baby condition and still we haven't come up with any names for the baby. I was so remember, that was 12 October 2013 Saturday we do the regular check up. The Doctor said, it's already pass the time of delivery and she suggest to wait for another week or two or the only option is conducting the cesarean section. We decide to check in the hospital that day. The considerations is even the doctor convincing can still be wait until the next 2 weeks, but we still stay in the hospital; since we're still new as parents.
After wait for almost 2 days with no labor progress, the nurse suggest us with the cesarean. Even we don't want to do it, but we decide to go with the best options given. It is afternoon 14 October 2013, the nurse prepared me for the labor process. Checking my blood, the baby heart beat, all condition until I transport to the surgery room around 4 in the afternoon. Before that, the nurse injecting the anesthesia start unable to feel my but all the way to feet. I can still can hear the Doctors talking saying about the water is green already and other doctor talks.
Finally when the tummy feels like something been take out, not long after the baby cries. There she is, the baby whose birth similar to the malam takbiran Iedul Adha. When Everyone also go for holiday, me having one of the best moments ever. The doctor that handle my surgery is not the usual doctor that handle my monthly check up, but it's oke lah..
After the baby cries, one of the nurse show me the baby and she looks exactly like her dad.. she was put at my chest for a seconds, then measured the body height and weight. But, after the joy pass I started feel super dizzy and vomit.. Some how my body also tremble like crazy. All of my body shaking and still vomiting's all the way until they move me to the waiting room that is much warmer. They monitored my blood pressure, since my arm is shaking badly and still vomiting somehow my arm gets real blue.
Don't know how long the process of the surgery and the recovery, but the Whole time I always awake. Even until I was moved to the room, I still awake and not long after take a medicine I can sleep nicely. It was one of the best sleep ever.
Finally the baby was brought to my room for breastfeed. My Breast milk still not come out, but my determination is high and I convince my self this is a must and Alhamdulillah it came out massively. Even off course wound comes from the baby mouth feels very cool, its all worth the pain.. I feel so happy the first time the baby starts milking from my breast.. all the pain after the surgery somehow gone..
Si Ayah, finally decide a name. Her name is Shafa. Wijaya, will be her last name off course but I wanted a middle name. So, the baby whose born during sore takbiran Iedul Adha 2013 called Shafa Arissa Wijaya ^_^
Welcome to the world baby girl, let's grow together..
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